This is the age old debate that is often forgotten when starting a relationship. It takes a back seat to “who pays for the bill” and “when do I go in for the kiss?”, but after that simmers down and it’s time for bed, you may find it hard to fall asleep with a partner. Never fear, this is an epidemic plaguing 25% of couples. The mindset is that sleeping with a partner keeps the relationship alive. However, sometimes it is just difficult. And why shouldn’t it be? You now have another person breathing next to you.
Then there is the Goldilocks effect, some like it cold/some like it hot, some like it firm/some like it soft. This leaves you waking up groggy and frustrated with your partner. Many Americans are finding that sleeping separately actually strengthens the relationship because you both have a comfortable night’s sleep.
But there is no denying that sleeping together creates a sense of safety, and according to new research, a longer life! Sleeping together lowers cortisol (stress hormone) levels, creating a less stressed individual and an overall longer lifespan.
Which is more important, a healthy relationship, or a longer life? Luckily, you don’t have to choose because there are many mattresses out there looking to benefit couple’s preferences.
What kind of sleep position do you and your partner emulate?
Everyone dreams even if they don’t remember it. Not remembering a dream is a very common practice, however, sometimes there are those dreams that are difficult to shake. Here are some common dreams and what they mean.
These types of dreams are the most common and frequent of all dreams we experience in our lifetime. Dreams of falling are usually vivid and tend to wake you up before hitting the bottom. Usually when we dream of falling, we have lost control of something.
Seeing water in a dream can be interpreted in various ways from the color to the type and even how you are interacting with water in the dream. Here we’ll talk about the colors of the water
- Clear: a positive symbol letting you know your emotions are clear. Is someone else in the dream with you? Your subconscious might be trying to tell you something
- Murky/Brown: unclear water might suggest emotional difficulties
- Dark Blue: this dark color suggests that your unconscious emotions could be heavy and deep. How do you feel in the water in your dream? It’ll let you know your level of comfort with those emotions
- Red: as most things that are red in dreams, this suggests anger and passion. This colors brings out your inner feelings
Dreaming in a Dream
How very Inception of you; now while this might seem like you are dreaming of the movie (and fingers crossed Joseph Gordon-Levitt or Tom Hardy show up in your dreams), it is not that uncommon to have a dream within a dream. Similar to the movie, you will be able to discover levels to your unconscious mind that you couldn’t access before.
Ever busted a move in your dreams? Dancing in dreams can mean so many different things! So how are you dancing in your dreams?
- Alone: you feel complete & free
- With a partner: feel joy and safety with that person
- Taking the lead: you are in control and in charge
- Stepping on your partners feet: awkwardness in the situation
- Audience or with a group: you are putting on a show, let loose and have fun!
Dreams of this nature indicate your life’s path. How the road looks will help to guide you with what is ahead of you.
Each country has its own unique culture. So it is no surprise that this even extends to sleep.
- Sometimes excessive worry keeps you awake at night. Therefore, worry dolls were born. These dolls are incredibly small and can be placed under a pillow. One doll for each worry. They are then placed under a pillow, so that the sleeper can relieve themselves of their worries.
- Japan is named one of the top countries that sleeps the least. They average about 6 hours and 22 minutes a night. It is no surprise, then, that napping is a custom adopted by the Japanese. However, these naps are usually done in public; on a train, standing up, at a desk, or even in meetings. These naps are called “inemuri” or “to be asleep while present.” The idea is that a person is so fatigued from over working that they can’t help but nap.
- The kids usually go to bed around 10pm. This is considered late to many Americans, but in Argentina, children are encouraged to stay awake to partake in evening activities. Very often, dinner is served at 9pm. Don’t worry, many Argentine kids sleep in late too.
- Families have a multipurpose bedroom. Often, families will sleep together in the same room, and then in the morning, bed mats are rolled up to create a living room for sharing a meal.
- Although, siesta is a Spanish word, Italians are known to also take siestas. Around midday they will close shop, go home, eat lunch, and nap. This proves beneficial because the body naturally gets tired around midday.
Bostwana and Zaire
- They sleep when they’re tired. In hunter gatherer tribes like the !Kung of Botswana and the Efe of Zaire, they have no set sleep schedule. They sleep during the day, at night, really whenever they are tired. Sleep medicine scientists are saying that only sleeping when tired can actual prove beneficial in getting better sleep.
There are so many perks to being in a relationship. Here are some more ways you and your partner can enjoy getting ready for bed.
- Economical and fun. Showering together saves water and is a fun way to connect and relax before bed.
Go to Bed at the Same Time
- This one is difficult, especially with different schedules. But try to set an agreed upon time that you both escape to the bedroom.
Unplug & Talk
- Once there, don’t just stare at your computer screen. It is important to catch up and communicate, which will help to unwind.
- There is nothing quite like it. Snuggling also increases intimacy and connectedness in couples.
Say “I Love You”
- Always remember to say, “I love you.”
Insomnia plagues many Americans. This can come in an acute or chronic form. One common cause is anxiety. It is hard to fall asleep when the mind is over thinking and it is even harder to stay asleep. A lack of sleep leads to waking up feeling drowsy and potentially even more anxious creating a vicious cycle. Here are some things to try to break up with insomnia.
During the Day
It is just as important to control your daytime routine in order to produce a solid night’s sleep.
- Exercise aids in everything! It is important to exercise for overall health as well as aiding in sleep. The other side of this is to remember to exercise during the day and not too close to bedtime.
- Avoid Caffeine and Alcohol
- Caffeinated beverages are a stimulant making it hard to fall asleep. Alcohol may help aid in falling asleep, but actually reduces the possibility of staying asleep.
- Avoid Naps
- Sleeping during the day makes it harder to fall asleep at night.
A nighttime routine is the second line of sleep aid.
- Light Dinner
- It is important to not overeat at dinner time. Indigestion could keep you up at night. Also, don’t go to bed hungry, as hunger keeps you awake. Finding a happy medium is the key.
- Hide Electronics
- Bedtime is the time for sleep (and sex). Watching TV, scrolling through social media, and Netflix should be avoided as the blue light from screens keeps the mind awake. If you must, limit it to more than 30 minutes before sleep.
- Cool Your Room
- Recent studies show that the perfect sleep temperature is between 60-68° Fahrenheit. Your body temperature drops naturally to aid in sleep, so why not drop the temperature of your bedroom?
A regular routine is a sure fire way to make falling asleep more manageable.
- Sleep and Wake Up at the Same Time
- A routine helps aid in letting the body and mind know when it is time to sleep. It is enticing to sleep in on weekends, and newer studies even suggest sleeping in on weekends to catch up on sleep could be beneficial. However, try to not sleep more than an hour.
- Posture has many benefits to health. Naturally, this can be carried over to sleep. Lying on your back and side is the healthiest positions for sleep.
- Invest in a Comfortable Mattress *wink wink nudge nudge*
- Many complain that an uncomfortable mattress is keeping them awake. The average human spends about 1/3 of their life in bed, so why not splurge on a mattress that will provide years of benefits, comfort, and cool?
- Heart Health
Sleep is directly compatible with a healthy heart. Lack of sleep can increase stress hormones in the body. This leads to an overworked heart sometimes resulting in high blood pressure or even heart attacks.
- Keeps You Thin
It’s true, sleeping well regularly can keep the pounds off. Sleeplessness increases appetite and depresses the feeling of being full. Lack of sleep can also make it difficult to say no to junk food.
- Mood Boost
Not sleeping enough can leave you feeling stressed or frustrated. Long term effects on mood include depression, lower self-esteem, and increased anxiety.
- Increased Productivity & Focus
Getting a good night’s sleep increases short-term memory in adults. Adequate sleep is directly correlated to an improved skill set as well as higher test scores and improved attendance. It makes sense, if sleeping less lowers your immune system and makes you irritable, it may be more difficult to focus and be productive.
- Improves Relationships
Not getting enough sleep lowers libido. But aside from that, lack of sleep makes you more emotional and amplifies negative emotions making it harder to maintain positive relationships.
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It’s no secret that sleep has vital health benefits, but then why is it so difficult to catch this much-needed shut eye? In a recent study by the Wall Street Journal, it was discovered that, when it comes to sleep, the temperature is more important than light and time. 65° Fahrenheit is the perfect temperature for sleep, and many people are setting the thermostat a bit higher than optimal sleeping temperature. According to Dr. Matthew Walker, a professor of neuroscience and psychology at the University of California, Berkeley, “If our core temperature is too high the brain cannot easily make the switch from being awake to being asleep, or create the best quality sleep.”
Throughout the day, the body’s core temperature is slowly dropping, helping to initiate and prepare the body for sleep. This could explain why the room feels colder when a person is tired or didn’t get enough sleep.
In 2008, a group of researchers in the Netherlands found that dropping body temperature, participants were able to fall asleep quicker and also obtained a deeper quality of sleep. “Other experiments that varied the ambient temperature—decreasing it early in the night and increasing it in the morning—have shown similar benefits for improving and maintaining sleep.”
Nowadays there is even a mattress with ATROS technology available to aid in cooling temperatures at night *wink wink nudge nudge* So, if this isn’t enough to convince you to sleep cooler, maybe our other articles will.
Every night, it’s the same routine. You brush your teeth. You wash your face. You put on pajamas…or not. And then finally, bedtime, the best time of day! You snuggle up with a pillow and your favorite blanket waiting for sleep to consume you…and you wait…and wait…and wait…but alas you just can’t get comfortable. You’re too hot. You’re too restless. You keep tossing and turning until all of a sudden it’s 2 a.m. Monday morning and you have to get up for work in 4 hours. If this has happened to you, you’re not alone. 68% of Americans have trouble falling asleep at least once a week. Luckily, we have a solution.
Here are 5 reasons the Tanda mattress is the mattress for you:
1) Four layers of breathable cooling comfort
2) Appeasers “insomnia”, or in layman’s terms “resisting a rest” by regulating body temperature
3) Neutralizes the restless dragon in you, making it easier to focus on fighting nights by keeping you cool throughout your sleep battle
4) The only mattress with a customizable “cool-to-touch” feature
5) ATROS (Advanced Temperature Regulation for Optimum Sleep) technology.
Still not convinced? How about we let you sleep on it. #sleepgoalsachieved